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A mentor is someone who sees more talent and ability within you than you see in yourself and helps bring it out of you.

~ Bob Goshen 

First, as always, i hope everyone is safe. Second, always remember that when you feel confident or guarantee something, that is the most dangerous time in your life. More on that in the future. Third, time for a book review.

If you’ve ever wondered what makes Silicon Valley tick, Trillion Dollar Coach: The Leadership Playbook of Silicon Valley’s Bill Campbell by Eric Schmidt, Jonathan Rosenberg, and Alan Eagle is your backstage pass. This book isn’t just a biography, it’s called a hagiography. Hagiography refers to the writing of the lives of saints or holy people, often in a way that idealizes or glorifies them. It can also describe any biography that presents its subject in an overly flattering or idealized light, sometimes bordering on propaganda. It is akin to when a musician dies; they appear to get better and bigger than they were in their previous life, seemingly magically.  

The quotes that i have in this blog are from the book and are referred to as “Bill-isms”.

Dont waste time worrying about the future. Allow serendipity to play a role. Most of the turning points in a life cannot be predicted or controlled.

However, in this case, hagiography is legit. It’s a masterclass in leadership, distilled from the life of Bill Campbell, the unsung hero who coached tech titans like Steve Jobs, Marissa Mayer, Larry Page, Sergey Brin, Mary Meeker, Cheryl Sandberg, Erich Schmidt, and Jeff Bezos to greatness. Get the moniker “trillion-dollar coach”? Written with the clarity and insider perspective of Google’s former execs, it’s a playbook for anyone looking to lead with heart, grit, and smarts. It is also not for the faint of heart.

Sadly, he left this part of the universe in April 2016.

Why It’s Worth YOUR Time

Bill Campbell wasn’t a household name, but his impact on tech is seismic. A former football coach turned business sage, he mentored leaders at Apple, Google, and Amazon, shaping companies worth over a trillion dollars. The book breaks down his approach, equal parts tough love and genuine care, into actionable principles. It’s not a dry powder blue and green leadership manual; it’s a story-driven guide packed with anecdotes that feel like you’re eavesdropping on boardroom conversations. Based on interviews with more than eighty people who knew and loved Bill Campbell, Trillion Dollar Coach explains the Coach’s principles and illustrates them with stories from the great companies and people with whom he worked and, more importantly, played. Yes, folks, you CAN HAVE FUN AT WORK ya hear?

The authors, all mentees of Campbell, weave personal stories with practical lessons. You’ll read about how Campbell pushed Google’s Eric Schmidt to “get out of the way” and let his team shine, or how he helped Steve Jobs navigate Apple’s toughest days. It’s raw, real, and refreshingly human, no corporate jargon here, no “I’m Ok, You’re OK” agendas, just wisdom that sticks.

Its the people. The top priority of any manager is the well being and sucess of the people.

Some Highlights:

Trip Reports:

From the book, Campbell had this vibe where he’d nudge teams to kick off meetings with some real, non-work chatter to build that connection. It was all about getting folks comfy, breaking the ice, and letting everyone feel part of the tribe right from the first pull request. A story from the book, take Eric Schmidt, for instance, when he’d roll back to Google after some globe-trotting, he’d slap a Google map up on the screen, little pins dropped on the cities he’d hit. Then he’d spill the iced tea on the wild stuff he saw, like the neon buzz of a new tech hub or some hip street art that caught his eye, painting a picture so vivid you could almost feel the jet lag (pp. 42-45).

I personally love hearing where people went, accomplished, lived, and loved, what their dog, progeny, or goldfish did that weekend.

Work the team not the problem. When faced with a problem or opportunity (everything is an opportunity) the first step is to ensure the right team is in the right place and working on it.

Five Words On A White Board:

The authors said that the 1:1 meetings were always held in his nondescript office in Palo Alto. At first, the high-power execs balked. Then again, as they thought about it, don’t you go see your therapist or doctor? Bill Campbell was all about that structured flow, and you could tell he’d put real thought into prepping for his one-on-ones, which always went down at his off-site office a cozy spot that felt worlds away from the usual grind. It was said they would ease into things with some laid-back vibes, but the convo was never shallow; it had this incredible depth, like peeling back layers over a strong cup of coffee. Then came the ritual: They had written five words on white boards, they would both flip the whiteboards to reveal their“five words” the five big things each wanted to dig into. “I’d see his, he’d see mine”, and then mash ‘em together into this organic agenda, a perfect mix that felt less like a lecture and more like a shared journey, guiding us through the real stuff that mattered” (pp. 46-48).

Wow, so good. I’ve always tried to make the 1:1s anything the person working with me wanted at that time. Whatever they needed that day. Go through code, math, idea, sure. Vent session, of course. Sit silently. Sleep yes. Cry, I’ve seen it several times. Look at the window and wonder with them, I’ve done it. You must engage to lead. You must live the art of the code with them.

Define the “First Principles” for the situation, The Immutable Truths that are the foundation for the company or product and help guide the decision from those principles.

Lead based on first principles:

From the book Bill Campbell had this knack for cutting through the noise, always circling back to what he called “first principles”—those rock-solid, unshakeable truths that anchor a company or product, the kind of stuff you can lean on to make tough calls (p. 60). He’d say a leader’s gig is to keep those principles front and center, like a north star, so the team can navigate decisions without getting lost in the weeds. Mike McCue was the CEO of Tellme, who sat down with Campbell, probably over a scratched-up table in some diner, wrestling with whether to merge with AT&T and later Microsoft. They dug into Tellme’s core truths, those “immutable” vibes that defined who they were, and suddenly the path forward felt clearer, like the fog lifting off a neon-lit highway at dawn and they went and chose the deal with Microsoft because it matched who they were as a company not soley based on the largest dollar amount (pp. 57-60).

This is huge. First-principles engineering should be applied at all phases and aspects of a company, from technology design to people management.

Solve the biggest problem(s) first. Identify the biggest problem the elephant in the room. Bring it to the front and center with complete transparency and tackle it first.

Only coach the coachable: 

Leadership is not about you. It’s about serving something bigger, whether it’s a company or a team. Campbell believed that people who are coachable are curious, want to learn new things, and are brutally honest with themselves (p. 85-87).

There is a rumor that i said to someone really smart “The Smartest Person In The Room is The Most Curious.” while i dont remember saying that i believe her. They truly are – never lose your curiosity, wonder, and hunger for knowledge.

This also reminded me of a story about a Navy Fighter Pilot James Stockdale who was shot down during the Korean War. To keep his fellow POWs together and alive, he used the term “Unity Over Self” as a watchword when things went terribly wrong (like suicide).

I personally cannot stand people who self-optimize in a company that is striving to solve impossible tasks. There is no room for them. REMEMBER: a little bit of a lot is better than a lot of nothing. Self-optimizers would rather be right than rich.

The top characteristics to look for are smarts and hearts: The ability to learn fast, a willingness to work hard, integrity, grit, empathy and a team first attitude.

The Aberrant Genius:

The best part of the book for me was his take on what he termed “aberrant genius”. i term them “overlocked misfits.” When he referred to these wild, brilliant types, the ones who’d show up to a meeting with a head full of galaxy-sized audacious, impossible ideas but maybe forget their shoes (i prefer barefoot) and had already coded a little of the idea in tow. He called them “aberrant geniuses,” the folks who didn’t fit the mold but completely changed the game and company , like the an eccentric coder at Apple who’d debug a million lines of code in a single night (or read hex and compile it in there heads and debug in real time – ive seen it), or the designer with multi colored hair at Google who’d sketch a UI in figma that’d make your jaw drop (pp. 97-98).

Perhaps one of the most difficult tasks facing managers with to do with the diva, the person who is a star performer who is a pain to work with? Support them as they continue to perform and minimize the time spent fighting them. They can build great products and high performing teams They are simple better in many many ways.

We have all done it late nights in a neon-drenched or dimly lit coworking space, the hum of laptops in the background, watching the person in pajamas or mismatched socks rewrite the future. At the same time, the rest of us scrambled to keep pace, knowing we were witnessing something truly historic and extraordinary. i’ve witnessed the world change in one line of code that they wrote.

Please care for all of them. For instance, please don’t leave them alone at a conference. Most of them get scared (and lost). Please, if you have them in your company, most great companies do have them in spades, and truly love all of them. Gabba Gabba Hey One Of Us – One Of US.

Leading teams becomes a lot more joyful and the teams much more effective when you really know and truly care about the people.

Work The Team Not The Problem:

Bill Campbell was the kind of coach who could whip a team into shape like a maestro conducting a chaotic orchestra, always working the crew before tackling the mess at hand he’d mold them, nudge the right players into their sweet spots, rally them with a cheer, or shake them when they were slacking (p. 109). I can picture him in some dimly lit office, the kind with flickering fluorescents, obsessing over team dynamics, scouring over talent, and hunting for the juggernaut artists who’d get stuff done (p. 113). Then there’s his pairing trick: he’d throw two folks who barely knew each other together on a random task, and man, you could feel the trust spark between them, like amazing jazz or funk muscisions “down on the one”, it didn’t even matter what they were playing or working on, ‘cause the real magic was in the band and bond they built, a quiet win for the team’s vibe that’d pay off down the road (pp. 123-124).

I love this. The problem will change. The notes will change. The code will change. The Team can be constant and turn vacuum cleaners into space shuttles. Truly – find the folks who have seemingly unrelated talents and put them together. Interesting ingredients make for some interesting fusion suppers.

Always build communities inside and outside of work. A place is much stronger (and more creative) when people are connected and feel they can bring thier real selves to the workplace

Some Key Concepts:
  • Trust is the Foundation: Campbell’s secret sauce was building trust. Trust and being truthful is really all that matters when building well – anything. From the book, it sounds like he didn’t just coach; he connected, making people feel seen and valued. The book shows how trust fuels collaboration and innovation. In fact, it fuels life.
  • Team First, Ego Last: His mantra was to put the team above individual glory. Whether you’re leading a startup or a book club, this mindset shifts how you approach leadership. All boats rise with the tide.
  • Be a Truth-Teller: Campbell wasn’t afraid to call out nonsense, but he did it with empathy. You’ll learn how to give feedback that’s direct yet constructive. Also, he wasn’t afraid to say what he didn’t know and allow others to say it, then go find the answer. No posturing.
  • Community Matters: From hosting Sunday dinners to fostering Silicon Valley’s tight-knit culture, Campbell showed that relationships drive success. Bring yourself to work, who you are at home and at work should be the same. Thus you can be truly creative to invent the future.

When things are going bad teams are looking for even more loyalty, commitement and decisiveness from their leaders. Leaders Lead.

Why It Resonates

What sets this book apart is its heart. Campbell wasn’t chasing fame or fortune; he was about people and specifically the creators, the developers, and the engineers. The authors capture his warmth and no-BS attitude, making you wish you’d met him. It’s not just for tech bros or Broks (bros using Grok); anyone leading a team, from entrepreneurs to teachers, will find pure fire and gold here. The writing is crisp, the stories are engaging, and the lessons are universal. It reminds me of Coders at Work. Truly first-hand, humbling, real-time experiences.

Innovation is where the crazy people have stature. The purpose of a company is to bring product and vision to life. All other components are in service to the the vision and product.

Any Downsides?

If you’re allergic to Silicon Valley’s self-congratulatory vibe, some parts might feel a tad elite and insular to downright echo chamberish. The book relies heavily on examples from the tech industry, which may limit its appeal to outsiders. A few more diverse case studies might broaden its reach, but for me, it would dilute the message. The book is first-hand knowledge of reduce, refactor, and reuse, where IT all began, and folks, it will continue to be. Also, if you’re looking for a step-by-step leadership formula, you won’t find it. Campbell’s style is more art than science, as great things usually are. Leadership by number painting, this is not.

The degree of independence of creative thinking of being non-conformist is a strength. You need to embrace the non-conformist streak.

Evidently, Campbell was fond of the F-Word. For anyone who knows me, i am as well. One of his favorite sayings in the book is “Dont F-k IT Up!”. Love it. There have been studies that showed that in the workplace, when used effectively, it can lead to more innovative behaviors. Caveat Emptor, not everyone agrees. Check how cool your HR folks are before bombing.

Who Should Read It?

Aspiring leaders, startup founders, or anyone curious about what makes great teams tick. If you’re a fan of books like Measure What Matters or The Hard Thing About Hard Things, this is your next read. It’s also a must for those fascinated by Silicon Valley’s inner workings.

Final Verdict

Trillion Dollar Coach is a rough diamond that scintillates, that strikes a perfect balance between inspiration and practical advice. It’s like having a mentor in book form, one who’s tough, kind, and always in your corner. Read it, take notes, and channel your inner Bill Campbell. Your team will thank you. YOU will thank YOU.

NOTE: A person that I consider onw of my life-long professional mentors and one of the few people that can tell me to “Shut the f-k up” (and has) – I sent him a picture of the book when I finished reading it and said he probably knew a few folks in the book. He replied said he knew Bill Campbell and he played a hand in his personal life. “A players attract A Players.” ~ Steve Jobs

Rating: 5/5 stars. A must-read for leaders who want to make a dent in the universe, one relationship at a time.

Grab it on Amazon or your favorite, hopefully used bookstore.

Dear Reader, let me know what you think in the comments!

Until then,

#iwishyouwater

Ted ℂ. Tanner Jr. (@tctjr) / X

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One comment on “Book Review: Trillion Dollar Coach – Bill Campbell’s Leadership Legacy

  • Carole Corley

    Show me a company that practices these tenets and that will be a company that I want to work for. Thanks for an amazing and inspiring post!

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